Some help with "story wealth" collection please

I'm pretty noobie on the subject.

I usually play with the "A Story Wealth" collection available on the Nexus.

I try to add to it :

-OBCP, https://www.loverslab.com/files/file/18604-ocbp-for-fallout-4/

-3BBB, https://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/48978

And this wonderful mod "FHR, Female Head Redux".

I can't find and remove the conflicting mods (noobie). And I find myself with NPCs with head/face/hair completely WTF.

Could someone please give me some help. Pllllleeeeaaassseee.

Or just give me the optimal face/skin/body/hair mod list (for player/NPC),...and I'll figure it out... Thank you very much.